Possessiveness is a tendency seen in many people when they love someone very much. They get obsessed by the person that they want to hold on or own them. Actually it originates from fear, the fear of losing that person. The other person may be finding your possessive behaviour reprehensible. By showing of this excessive kind of love you are actually bringing fear in to your life
Suppose you have a pair of doves or a dog as pets, every day you open the cages and let them free. They roam around for some time and soon come back. Soon dog will be lying beside your feet or doves sitting on your hand. You love them very much still you didn’t try to possess them and let them free. The pets also love you. So they came back to be with you
So do not try to possess anyone how much deep you love. Set them free. They will come back. If they don’t come back understand that they are not yours.
